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True self-love is not selfish pleasure,
真正的自爱并不是指一个人的享乐
but rather the origin of discipline and willpower.
而是自律和意志力的源泉
Self-love is not giving yourself everything you want,
自爱不是把想要的一切都交给自己
but rather giving yourself the things that are good for you.
而是把对自己有好处的东西交给自己
Spending the weekend eating pizza and watching movies can feel great,
把周末的时间花在吃披萨饼和看电影上，你或许会觉得很棒
but that is not self-love.
但这并不是自爱
Self-love is discipline.
自爱是纪律
It says,
它会告诉你
“You may not like this,
现在的你可能不喜欢这样
but the future You will want to start this.”
但未来的你会希望你这样开始走向他
If we simply do whatever we want,
如果我们一味的为所欲为
it is
akin
to letting a toddler run wild and be spoiled.
就像让一个两三岁的孩子放任自流，败坏心性
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