Elinor, this eldest daughter, whose advice was so effectual, possessed a strength of understanding, and coolness of judgment, which qualified her, though only nineteen, to be the counsellor of her mother, and enabled her frequently to counteract, to the advantage of them all, that eagerness of mind in Mrs. Dashwood which must generally have led to imprudence. She had an excellent heart;--her disposition was affectionate, and her feelings were strong; but she knew how to govern them: it was a knowledge which her mother had yet to learn; and which one of her sisters had resolved never to be taught.

大女儿埃丽诺的劝解奏效了。埃丽诺思想敏锐，头脑冷静，虽然年仅十九岁，却能为母亲出谋划策。达什伍德太太性情急躁，做事总是冒冒失失。埃丽诺为大家着想，经常出来劝阻劝阻。她心地善良，性格温柔，感情强烈，然而她会克制自己，—一对于这—手，她母亲还有待学习，不过她有个妹妹决计一辈子也不要学。

Marianne's abilities were, in many respects, quite equal to Elinor's. She was sensible and clever; but eager in everything: her sorrows, her joys, could have no moderation. She was generous, amiable, interesting: she was everything but prudent. The resemblance between her and her mother was strikingly great.

玛丽安各方面的才干都堪与埃丽诺相媲美。她聪慧善感，只是做什么事情都心急火燎的。她伤心也罢，高兴也罢，都没有个节制。她为人慷慨，和蔼可亲，也很有趣，可就是一点也不谨慎，与她母亲一模一样。

Elinor saw, with concern, the excess of her sister's sensibility; but by Mrs. Dashwood it was valued and cherished. They encouraged each other now in the violence of their affliction. The agony of grief which overpowered them at first, was voluntarily renewed, was sought for, was created again and again. They gave themselve up wholly to their sorrow, seeking increase of wretchedness in every reflection that could afford it, and resolved against ever admitting consolation in future. Elinor, too, was deeply afflicted; but still she could struggle, she could exert herself. She could consult with her brother, could receive her sister-in-law on her arrival, and treat her with proper attention; and could strive to rouse her mother to similar exertion, and encourage her to similar forbearance.

埃丽诺见妹妹过于感情用事，不免有些担心，可达什伍德太太却觉得这很难能可贵。现在，她们两人极度悲痛的情绪，互相感染，互相助长。最初的那种悲痛欲绝的情状，一触即发，说来就来，反反复复地没完没了。她们完全沉湎于悲恸之中，真是哪里伤心往哪里想，越想越痛不欲生，认定这辈子就这么了结啦，谁来解劝也无济于事。埃丽诺也很悲痛，不过她尚能顶得住，尽量克制自己。她遇事能同哥哥商量着办，嫂子来了能以礼相待。她还能劝说母亲也这样做，请她多加忍让。

Margaret, the other sister, was a good-humored, well-disposed girl; but as she had already imbibed a good deal of Marianne's romance, without having much of her sense, she did not, at thirteen, bid fair to equal her sisters at a more advanced period of life.

三妹玛格丽特是个快活厚道的小姑娘，不过由于她已经染上了不少玛丽安的浪漫气质，而又不像她那么聪明，处在十三岁的年纪，还不可能赶上涉世较深的姐姐。